Friends

In order to make friends you must first be friendly.
— Dale Carnegie

How to make friends

  • Be yourself
    Don’t try to be someone you’re not. People like you for who you really are.

  • Show interest
    Ask questions and listen when others talk. People love when you care about what they say.

  • Join groups or clubs
    Find activities you enjoy and meet people who like the same things.

  • Be friendly and approachable
    Smile, say hi, and be open to starting conversations.

  • Be patient
    Friendships take time to grow. Don’t rush it.

  • ·Be curious
    Notice what others like and ask about their hobbies or favorite music.

  • Share about yourself
    Let people get to know you by sharing your interests and stories.

  • Help out
    Offer to help classmates with homework or invite someone to join your group.

  • Use humor
    A good laugh can break the ice and make people feel comfortable.

  • Be consistent
    Show up regularly to clubs or hangouts so people get used to seeing you.

Friendship is about kindness, trust, and fun. The more you practice, the stronger your friendships will be.

How to be a good friend

  • Be there
    Show up when your friends need you, whether it’s for fun or support.

  • Listen
    Pay attention and really hear what your friends are saying.

  • Be honest
    Tell the truth kindly and be someone they can trust.

  • Support and encourage
    Cheer your friends on and help them when they’re struggling.

  • Respect boundaries
    Give friends space when they need it and respect their feelings.

  • Celebrate their wins
    Get excited when your friends succeed, big or small.

  • Apologize when needed
    If you mess up, say sorry and make it right.

  • Keep secrets
    Respect your friends’ privacy and don’t share things they told you in confidence.

  • Include others
    Make sure no one feels left out when you’re hanging out.

  • Be patient
    Everyone has bad days—be understanding and give your friends space when they need it.

Friendship is a two-way street—give what you want to get. Being a good friend helps you build strong, lasting connections.